Monday I did the ten hour drive and all went smoothly. That evening was dinner and chillin' with the folks. I stayed at the old homestead the whole week, which was nice in that it allowed for more time with the parents. I also went for a walk in the Avenues that night. It was so quiet and lovely. I really do love walking through the Avenues.
Tuesday I got to visit Darci. I haven't seen her in probably over two years, which is just disgraceful. I went to her home in Payson. It's a beautiful house with lovely woodwork by her hubby, Ben. I got to hang out with her daughter Malia too, who was just about 3 years old. She's so funny, like Darci. We got some food at a Cajun restaurant in Payson - yeah, Cajun in Payson. I loved catching up with Darci and laughing. I'm so glad she's still super cool and smart and funny. :) It's amazing how comfortable we still are and, I'm assuming, always will be together. Those binds we formed when we were 13 years old are strong.
Wednesday morning I met my sister, Elizabeth, at Channel 2 to have "lunch" (in quotes as they have lunch at 9:00am). It was really fun to hang out with her and some of her work buddies, including my ol' pal, Bob aka Bobbio. I then skulked about so I could make sure I saw one of my favorite people, Brian Mullahy. I already had an affinity for Brian when I was a teeny kid and he started as an anchor on KSL. The first time I met him was at Toys R Us when I was, I mean, I must have been like 8 or 9 years old and I was so so excited to meet him. Over the years I've been able to get to chat with and hear about him from Elizabeth and so Wednesday we caught up and it was great. He is great. He's so positive and easy to talk to. I like our little connection and hope to continue to know him in the coming years. Classy dude.
I was then happy to have brunch with Heidi Hanson and Trixi Sieger. I went to high school with Heidi, she was 3 years younger? and then worked with both Heidi and Trixi and Arttix. I hadn't seen/hung out with them in so long, so it was a great unexpected visit. I got to meet Trixi's cute little boy. We ate at the Dodo in Sugarhouse. I was happy to find them both well and funny as always. It was fun to chat about all the old people we knew, hear what they are now up to. Lots of interesting stories. After Trixi left to put her boy to bed, Heidi and I continued to chat for quite some time and it was really fun. I'm glad to reconnect - she is hilarious. It was great.
East High (for the heck of it)
I then drove up to the UofU and visited PAB (Performing Arts Bldg). It's always bittersweet to walk through those halls. I got a bit choked up seeing the young students warming up in Studio 110. I felt like I was 90 years old and wanted to yell at them "This is the best time of your life! Savor every moment of this program!" I know I'm ridiculous, but it really was a special time. I saw Sandy for a minute, but she was off to a meeting and I saw Jerry for a minute, but he was off to class, so he told me to come back the next day. But even the short interaction with him was already amazing. It took him a second to remember who I was (not offended, he's got a bajillion students), so I told him I was the girl that one of the first classes was dancing with my eyes closed and ran my face smack into a big pole. That, he remembered with a "Oh! I've been telling that story for years!" That also made me want to weep - the fact that I was a story of his. Then he asked about being married and I told him we just got divorced and he shrugged his shoulders and said "meh". What a response. It was great. And then he talked about when your energy moves on, it's ok, etc.
That evening I visited Elizabeth at her house, looked at all her various memorabilia. Glad to get some extra time with my dear sister.
Thursday I went back to the U as per Jerry's request. I was able to have a longer chat with Sandy. She was wise and gracious as always. It was a really nice talk. We were able to touch on life choices and finding worth in what we're doing. She told me that although she is at retirement age (but won't be yet), she still has dreams, other goals, it never stops. I'm glad to know that. This is a sidetrack, but, in a recent wonderful conversation with my church Visiting Teachers it also came out that they (who are quite a bit older than I am), still are trying to figure things out themselves, still wondering what they want to be, what they should do with their lives. On one hand, it's daunting to know that the lack of surety continues, on the other hand it's really comforting to know I'm not alone and that all of us in life are just trying our best to figure it out. Anyway, back to Sandy. She also told me she had three memories of my work, which she had included in a letter of rec. she had written for me a couple months ago. The first one was when Cassie and I did a scene from the female "Odd Couple"....what?!? She remembered we did good work on that scene. So funny because Cassie and I still joke about that scene, because we think it was awful. We are so embarrassed of that scene and we always feel sad when we finally got to work together it was that! Although, I also remember we had fun rehearsing - lots of laughing. But, ok, it's remembered fondly by Sandy. Awesome. The second memory she had was an Uta Hagen exercise Cassie and I did together - where one was visiting at the others' apartment. So I had TOTALLY forgotten this. I can now vaguely recollect it, but seriously didn't remember and yet Sandy said we really created that reality to where at one point she had to shake herself to remember we were in a classroom and not indeed in the apartment with us. So that's pretty radical - I mean, that is what Uta should do. Good on us. I do like that two of the memories are with Crapsie Cottontail as I adore her and always wished we could have worked together more. Not sure what her third memory was, dang it, maybe it was Cat? but maybe not. We did talk about my Cat On A Hot Tin Roof scene. I do consider that some of my best work ever. I had major breakthroughs rehearsing that scene with Sandy. Sandy was an amazing teacher in those coaching sessions. I remember she would stop after each line if she needed to, if she didn't believe it, if I wasn't really tapped in and so I got tapped in and found great depths. The character exercises for that unit were awesome and I feel like I know Maggie so well and I miss her - wish I could play that role. Anyway, she said cool things like the fact that her students right now are just not as mature or able to understand the maturity required for some Tennessee, but that I found it with Cat. I remember I was terrified to play Maggie - so iconic, so much going on there and that also taught me that the projects I'm most scared about usually turn out the best. So yes, really nice talk with Sandy. She's lovely.
Then I sat down with Jerry. Oh boy, I was like intensely emotional with him. We did the general catching up thing and along the convo he had great statements, wish I could have just recorded it! But, I'll just hit some highlights that stand out to me. I told him how I was feeling being back in Utah and he said that we return to where we are from to see how we've grown. I like that a lot. He told a great thought about a leader from all the different religions in one room and you put an orange in the middle. They would all describe the orange differently, but at the end of the day, it's still an orange. We have different perceptions, different filters, but it is one reality. Something like that - haha, but I liked it. He, like Sandy, remembered my class fondly - that we were special. tee hee, we were. He remembered it got really wild in our class - the rose petals and water - a memory I had just shared with my Mom the day before. I reminded him of our Butoh performance for First Night at the Rose Wagner - how I almost choked to death on a piece of balloon that I had popped with my teeth - had to vomit it out on stage! He gave me advice on men - not to chase them, they can sense that. To just keep my heart soft and open and they will come to me and I'll just point and say "I choose you. I choose you". So good. Something I've been trying to work on anyway, but that only reinforced how much I will not be chasing after dudes anymore, at least if they aren't giving back. Done. I was also able to express to him how important he was, how much his class affected me and taught me to truly be open and that as much as I loved class at the time, it was after graduating that I really started to realize how special that class was and how much it taught me. So yeah, really emotional,crying as I was able to actually express these feelings to him. He said that I wanted Jerry back in my life for a reason and so there he is. We exchanged info, he wants me to keep in touch with him. He took my hand in his hands at one point and bowed and said some prayer and then let go and looked me in the eye and said something like, "It is simple, but believe in yourself. Have confidence". It is simple, but something I struggle with continually and need to do. He also said that he would say a special prayer for me in his temple. That the prayers they say are for every single person, but that he would bring me to the focus. (He's also a Buddhist Priest, by the way) Really cool. Ha, I just remembered one more thing, when I told him my name is Heidi Klein again he said like Heidi Klum and I died that is literally the first thing he said to me the first time I met him - one big circle. I then took a picture with him - he told me I couldn't post it on Facebook, haha, but as no one looks at my blog, I think I'm safe posting it here. He was also, of course, funny and silly and well, Jerry. Wonderful man.
I then went to meet with Liz Perkins (who I try to see as often as I go) and with Katie Harding! I haven't seen Katie in years - way too long! We met at a cute little coffee shop on 1st Ave and "I" st., hung out on the cozy couches and let me tell you, it was marvelous. I love those girls. Lizzy was looking lovely all pregnant - still slim with just a nice baby bump. She's doing well, feeling well and as dear as ever. It was so great being in our threesome again. Katie is great. I was so happy to find us so comfortable together - I felt closer to her than ever. I loved hearing about her life - so proud of her: she has wonderful goals, is driven and working hard - it's inspiring. I love laughing with them. Katie is so funny still and I want to hang out all the time and make her laugh. We had the best time and she wants me to move back - tempted (more on that in a bit). So that was special and way overdue.
Thursday night was the always anticipated, Carter date night. We went to Little Shop of Horrors at the Rose - he had a friend playing Seymour. It was just good to be with him again - hearing his stories, watching his mind work and his hands express. After the musical we went to Red Rock for some food. I'm not going to get into detail because it suffices to say that I love talking to him. I love hanging out with him. We have a great great time together. Nothing better than hanging out with Schmarter Billiams. Actually, yeah, that's all the needs to be said, the rest remains firmly in my mind.
So, Thursday morning I actually started feeling illin' in my belly. Thursday afternoon I wanted to die, but I rested and rallied so I could go out (duh, wasn't gonna miss my date!). But that night after I got home and went to bed, I plummeted: felt so sick, probably needed to puke, but didn't (TMI?) and ended up being awake, tossing and moaning until like 6:30am. Oy. Luckily as the day progressed on Friday I felt better and better. Friday afternoon Elizabeth and Alex came up to the parents' and we had a yummy lasagna lunch courtesy of Mumsie. So here's the awesome story for that: the TV in my Mom's bedroom is dreadful, beyond dreadful, so fuzzy and I just couldn't take it anymore, so I secretly devised getting them a new TV. The kids went in on it for a combined Mother's Day, Mom's Birthday, Father's Day, Pop's Birthday (I mean we're not made of money!). I bought it on Wednesday, I think, but wanted to keep it secret until the sisters could be there and we could all give it to them together. So Wednesday night, the second my mom got in the shower, I ran out to my car in my PJ's and lugged a huge TV in the house, quiet as a mouse and hid it in the closet in my bedroom (basically the ONLY hiding place in that house). Luckily she stayed out of there. So after we ate, I told Pop to go into the dining room and then we brought it in. They were so surprised!!! It was so so great. Pop's face was amazing. I loved doing that and I just so want to be rich so I can do nice things like that all the time for them. So we set it up, it's beautiful. Yay!
Alex had to take Jerad to the doctor, so Elizabeth and I hung out at the parents' for a while before heading down to Sandy that evening to hang with the Nighs. Poor Jerad was so worked the entire evening. He had had an MRI and they had drugged him for it, so he was just out of it. We ordered Sushi and watched the tube and then played Mario Party. It was nice to be there again. I wish we could have had more time, but luckily the Nighs did come down to visit me last month, okay, not to visit ME persay, they went to Disneyland, but also visited me! Crud. I never blogged about that. Hmm. Maybe I'll add a few of those photos here as well.
Quickest recap of that visit ever: they did Disneyland Thur, Fri & Sat. I met them there Sat. It was so fun to see them there and see that they were having a wonderful time. Finding them on Main Street that morning was so gleeful. Sunday they went to Universal Studios - got terribly rained out (we NEVER have storms like that). They stayed at my place. We ate Taco Bell (haha - just so they could try Doritos Locos Taco!), we just generally had a great time being together. I LOVED having them at my home. Monday I showed them around Warner Bros., dropped Alex and Jerad off to see Conan and while they did that I went to the zoo with Dylan. I had a great time with Dylan. Loved having that quality time. We enjoyed the zoo - favorites from that: Dylan loving the big cats the most (like me), his funny comments all the time, so clever, like the animal that looked like a "kitty-puppy" - it really did. Then we went to Griffith Park and saw the old zoo cages - he totally dug it, which was cool. Picked up the Nighs, got Portos - they LOVED Portos - so so happy as it is my favorite food in LA! I took them to Grauman's to see the footprints. Then back home to hang out. Tuesday morn we went to Manhattan Beach. It was lovely. Then we had a fantastic lunch, crud can't remember the name of the place, a taco place - so so so yummy. Then airport. Wow, ok, there was that sidetrack. Now sidetrack Nigh CA trip photos:
(our attempt at Hear No Evil, etc. didn't quite work ha)
Love this pic of Dylan's footprints:
So, the summation after this long recap: it was a wonderful trip. I was able to relax, decompress, walk, reminisce, and most importantly spend time with my family and with so many dear friends. It made me really really miss everyone and really long to be with people that know me, who I am comfortable with, who love me. I miss having so many friends around. So it certainly threw me. I had already been allowing the idea of moving back to Utah creep in as I went about my job search, but after that week, I actually added it to my real possibilities category in my brain and there it remains. I just don't know what it is I'm supposed to be doing. I don't know where I will find the opportunities that will be best for me personally and for my career. I know there are just more career opportunities here. But then the question comes up, what is more important? Pushing myself here and achieving some great career goals and continuing to try to meet new good people for my life or finding a job I can enjoy in Utah, finding a career path there and being with so many dear people that I know and love? And, of course, the other big issue: living in a conservative weird state vs. a liberal state with more like-minded people around. So, for now I think I will stay here and pursue a career in casting. It's something I've considered for some time, something I think I could enjoy and a path that I could have upward motion in. I am here now. I should use my time here and try that, always knowing that I can change my mind, that I can try new paths later, that if I decide I want to go back to Utah, I can. I will see how things shake down. For now, I am super eager to find a casting assistant gig and see how I like that world. I also need to find a new apartment STAT. So I will enjoy the beautiful weather, the movies, the goings-on, my ward, my friends, a dear friend who moves here in August, getting myself in good shape, seeing what kinda dude action happens, and refining my wants and dreams. That's the plan. And I hope I can figure it all out! Schwoo.
